Her family loves her a lot. She is so close to her sisters and Father. She did FSC pre-medical from a private college. She wanted to become the doctor but unfortunately, she couldn t get admission in medical college due to high merit. Anyhow, she started work hard and her father and younger uncle gave courage to her don t lose hope, one day you will be succeeded. Moreover, she decided to get higher education from University, ultimately she gets admission in Private University.
Throughout the procedure her father and younger brother supported her and managed her all finance over there. She completed her first semester happily. Then, she promoted in a second semester at the mid of the second semester 2021, 3rd May at midnight during Month of Ramadan she received a call from her family. Warsha s life went dark due to sudden loss of her father by heart attack, at the age of 20. She searched for her father’s love in every corner but it was like flattering a dream. Despite her family’s affection she felt isolated.
Warsha s early life was marked by struggle and survival. After losing her father she became silent. She couldn't express her feelings either she feeling exhausted or happy. Even her family loves her too much but she was feeling loneliness. She tries to find her father loves and affection everywhere. She became depressed and stress.
As she grew older, Warsha s family began to pressure her into a forced marriage, a common practice in their community. She was just 23 still grappling with her own identity and aspirations. The thought of being tied down to a man she didn t love, with no say in her own future, filled her with anxiety and dread. She fights for her own rights. She talked to her family and wanted to remain busy in her study don t want to bound in a relation.
Despite her protests, the Nikkah was arranged, and Warsha bound herself trapped in a relationship that suffocated her. She was against Cousin marriage. The emotional trauma she endured was worse by her family s disapproval of her desires and dreams. Her family did emotional blackmailing and mentally traumatize. She was crying and helpless at that time. She was just waiting her father might be her father came from somewhere because father never seen her daughter tear.
Warsha had always dreamed of studying abroad, of escaping the confines of her city and exploring the world beyond. But her family couldn t listen to her, they don t understand her psyche and mental illness. Feeling isolated and alone, Warsha turned to her own resources to manage with the stress and depression that threatened to consume her. She got panic attack during such painful journey.
One day, while browsing a social media, Warsha stumbled upon a documentary of Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy, she is a social activist and women empowerment that resonated deeply with her. It was the story of different girls, some was killing by the name of honor killing, and acid attack. In our society there is a common phenomenon when any daughter got married, parents only used to say don t come home even you die. Inspired by watching such documentaries courage, Warsha realized she didn t have to accept her fate. She began to secretly read about women s empowerment, self-defense, and entrepreneurship, determined to establish her own path. She wanted to become financially independent.
Warsha started online tuitions to younger students. She did IELTS, and also certified ELT Teacher Trainer. She has a strong profile and polishes her skills. She poured her heart and soul into these projects, slowly building a sense of purpose and confidence. In all that, there was a guiding man her university teacher who helps her a lot to find scholarship and also healed up from such trauma. She applied in Turkey on fully funded scholarship by the help of that teacher she finds a good way.
The day Warsha received a scholarship from a foreign university was a turning point in her life. It was a chance to pursue her dreams, to break free from the restrictions of her forced marriage and create a better future for herself. With newfound determination, Warsha began to plan herself escape, knowing it wouldn t be easy, but willing to take the risk.
Warsha s story is one of the strength and courage stories, an appreciation to the human spirit s ability to overcome adversity. Though her journey is far from over, she knows she s no longer alone, and that gives her the strength to keep moving forward. However, confronting all challenges she was so close to Allah. She became so strong, and good decision maker. " Hardships that is the way to sharp the human s personality." Saba Khadim
Warsha s path forward won t be easy. She is confronting challenges, obstacles, and self-doubt. But she s determined to succeed, to prove to herself and others that she s more than just a victim of circumstance. With each passing day, Warsha grows stronger, more confident, and more determined to mold her own destiny. She has some plans to work being a social activist, women empowerment and work for an NGOs or Organizations. Currently she is struggling not even for herself but other disappointed girls.
Will she succeed? Only time will tell. But one thing is certain. She focused on (3Ds) in her life determination, discipline, a strong dedication. Warsha will not be defined by her past. She ll rise above it, create a new future, and inspire others to do the same. Now she is motivating others by her experienced and knowledge. She educating youngsters and giving motivational sessions.
Note: The institution does not necessarily agree with the blogger’s personal views. — Editor
